1. Low-pressure question cards
Question cards provide a starting point without requiring the practitioner to generate every prompt. The trick is choosing questions that invite curiosity rather than feeling like disguised intake questions.
Card 1
What completely ordinary thing do you insist on doing your own way?
Card 2
If your week had a movie title, what would it be?
Card 3
Would you rather always know the answer or always know the right question?
Card 4
What’s a rule you would change if you were in charge for a day?
Give clients some control. They can pick a card, swap it, answer a different question, or ask you to answer first. For more prompts in this spirit, see these icebreakers for teens.
Try it in person
Write questions on cards or folded slips of paper. Let the client select a few.
Try it virtually
Display questions on screen and allow the client to choose a number or category.
Follow-up question
“How did you come up with that answer?”
When to modify or skip
If answering questions already feels overwhelming, don’t replace a difficult conversation with an activity that feels like a quiz. Offer a visual or shared game instead.





